As any man who has ever had a girlfriend can confirm, chicks are jealous creatures. They're forever accusing their dates of checking out other women and hitting on their friends â€" and, much as we may deny it, they're frequently right.
Most guys suspect that their relationship isn't going to last. At some point his girlfriend's jealousy and paranoia are going to become too much for him. Or possibly his wandering eyes will drive her into dumping him. Either way, the end seems inevitable, and it pays to be prepared.
If you have more than a handful of dates with a chick, you're likely to meet her friends. And some of those friends are likely to be attractive. By charming those girls now, you can ensure that your eventual break up will do nothing to stop you scoring with them in the months to come.
So how do you go about it?
The first thing to remember is never to do the dirty on your girlfriend. It doesn't matter how gorgeous her very drunken friend is, good guys do not cheat.
Bad guys know better, too; if your current girl catches you misbehaving word will soon get around for single girls to steer well clear of you. It's rarely worth the fallout.
But you can pave the way for post-break-up encounters with other girls.
Bear in mind that you are currently unavailable â€" so act it. Don't use any pick up lines, don't exchange innuendoes and don't attempt to get your girl's best friend to kiss you. Your mission just now is not to actually score with her friends; it's to get them to like you enough that you'll stand a chance with them in the future.
Ironically, the best way to get your girlfriend's friends interested in you is to be interested in your girlfriend. If you treat her well and show yourself to be a sweet, considerate guy you will immediately be seen as a catch. Making a big deal out of her birthday or special occasions is a great way to show that you care about her, while asking her friends for advice about which gifts to buy or where to take her will simultaneously flatter and impress them.
Build up a genuine rapport with her friends. Make a point of remembering their names and little details such as their jobs, hobbies and what types of pet they all keep. When one of them talks to you, make sure you really listen. Maintain eye contact, smile and pay attention to what they're telling you. If you can establish a friendly connection with the girls, they'll miss you after the break up â€" and will grab every opportunity to re-establish that bond.
Be aware of how the girls are feeling. If one looks or sounds unhappy, ask if she's okay. If she wants to talk, turn your shoulders towards her and let her explain exactly what's getting her down. This will ensure that everyone sees you as a caring, sensitive and desirable man.
When you do break up with your current girl, try to keep things civil. If the relationship ends with a fight, her friends will feel that they have to take her side. If, however, you and your ex are able to exchange pleasantries her friends will feel free to do the same.
A break up doesn't have to signal the end of all contact with a group. Play your cards right now and the end of one flirtation could very well be the start of something new.
About the Author
Want to learn 50 WAYS for approaching, attracting and seducing women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson's Free eBook which provides 50 tips for instant dating success.
Wednesday, January 23, 2008
How To Create Instant Attraction & Have Women Chase YOU!
As guys, we were normally taught by our parents that the best way to get a girl is for us to be 'nice, gentle, caring and loving' guys.
"Just show her you care, be there for her whenever she needs you, be a romantic, send her flowers, and constantly pursue her."
"Do this persistently and one fine day, she'll [naturally] develop feelings for you and will fall for you".
Frankly speaking, back during the 50s, 60s and 70s, such 'wussy-like' techniques could work.
I mean, that was exactly how our dads normally courted our moms anyway, right?
If it worked for them then, in theory, it would definitely work for us now, right?
I used to think that this should be the way.
But I was dead wrong.
In fact, when I first started developing interest for girls, I tried this tactic myself, and went through many a heart break along the way.
It's now the new millenium and we have to move along with times. Things change, technology change, people change, WOMEN change; naturally the DATING SCENE has changed as well.
For me, one of the best ways for you to get the women you desire is for you to first -- Change your mindset.
Stop going after the girl.
Traditionally, it was the guy who has to go after the girl. But the "dating" scene has EVOLVED so much since the time of our forefathers, it doesn't have to be this way anymore!
In fact, if you want to be successful with women -- your mindset MUST be changed where your goal right now is to 'se.xually attract' HER to come after YOU...
... and no it is NOT impossible!
Let me give you an example...
You see, apart from teaching guys to be more successful with women, I am also an entrepreneur and I sell software products to my clients from all over the world.
For me, I tend to find it much EASIER to sell products to people who are ALREADY interested in my products or services rather than trying to cold call a prospective client and try to 'sell' it to them.
Imagine if you're a sales person who's job is to sell credit cards.
Don't you think it's much easier for you to close the sale when you have call-in or walk-in prospective clients who walks into the bank and tells you "I'm interested to apply for a credit card. What do you need?"
Same applies here when you're dating women.
You'll get far better results if you can "draw" her in & get HER interested to come after you instead.
Don't you think it'll be WAY easier to "close" her when she's ALREADY interested in you?
And exactly how do you do that?
Again in business.
What differentiates a successful multi-million dollar business from a struggling or an average "so-so" one?
The answer is 'differentiation'.
Successful business owners knows that in order for a customer to choose their products over their MANY other competitors, they will have to come out with a product, a business system or marketing concepts that are truly 'indifferent'.
The have to be unique and really STAND OUT from the rest.
Same goes in the seduction game.
If you want to become really successful in it, you've got to differentiate yourself by becoming truly unique, but in a very EXCITING and ATTRACTIVE way.
You see, if you've set your sight on a physically attractive woman, fact is that many other guys will ALSO find her attractive and would go straight on and hit on them.
On average, top-dog, hot looking women normally gets hit on at least, a minimum of 5-8 times -- every single day.
Now honestly ask yourself; what will your chances of 'scoring' with her be like if you were to act and do the EXACT SAME things like the the REST OF THE OTHER GUYS who are hitting on her that particular day?
Answer - most likely, zero.
If you really want to stand above the rest of them, you have to be truly unique and INDIFFERENT in your approach.
Most guys try to "convince" a woman to feel attracted to them by giving them compliments, gifts, buying them expensive dinners, etc with the HOPE that they will fall for them.
This NEVER works.
Attraction happens instantly or NOT at all.
Plain and simple.
Get that DRILLED into your head.
Don't be anything like the other clueless men, and start complementing her, be all submissive to her every demand, using cheesy pick-up lines, because women, esp beautiful ones, they are IMMUNE to such wussy like guys, its just too 'easy'/boring for them.
Instead, you should DEVELOP traits that women will normally find attractive in a man:
- Confidence (not acting insecure & needy) - Being unapologetic when you're talking to her in a charming & funny way - Not accepting bit.chy behaviour from her or anyone else - Have strong control of YOUR composure and SHOWING to her that you're not at all INTIMIDATED by her looks & let her know that SHE has to be the one to IMPRESS you - Flirtatious/charming character & body language
Having all these traits immediately throws women off their tracks because these are all things that they LEAST expect in their interactions with men.
I hope you're getting what I am trying to say here.
Oh and here's a little something on "pick-up lines"
Guys are always searching for the latest and best pick up lines.
My advice is - FORGET pick up lines.
At this day and age, women automatically turn themselves "off" to pick up lines, esp cheesy ones.
They get 'hit' by them over a thousand times in their lifetime - Don't get me wrong, really, REALLY good pick lines can work at times, but it can only get you as far as the first 30 seconds and that's it.
What happens AFTER you've run out of 'cool' lines then?
How are you going to "keep her interested" & keep the Game going then?
Bottom line, pick up lines are the OLD FASHIONED way of approaching women.
You want more great tips for free? Visit Zack's blog here : http://howtogetagirltolikeme.blogspot.com/
He has a big collection of articles on how to pick-up girls in different situations, all free!
"Just show her you care, be there for her whenever she needs you, be a romantic, send her flowers, and constantly pursue her."
"Do this persistently and one fine day, she'll [naturally] develop feelings for you and will fall for you".
Frankly speaking, back during the 50s, 60s and 70s, such 'wussy-like' techniques could work.
I mean, that was exactly how our dads normally courted our moms anyway, right?
If it worked for them then, in theory, it would definitely work for us now, right?
I used to think that this should be the way.
But I was dead wrong.
In fact, when I first started developing interest for girls, I tried this tactic myself, and went through many a heart break along the way.
It's now the new millenium and we have to move along with times. Things change, technology change, people change, WOMEN change; naturally the DATING SCENE has changed as well.
For me, one of the best ways for you to get the women you desire is for you to first -- Change your mindset.
Stop going after the girl.
Traditionally, it was the guy who has to go after the girl. But the "dating" scene has EVOLVED so much since the time of our forefathers, it doesn't have to be this way anymore!
In fact, if you want to be successful with women -- your mindset MUST be changed where your goal right now is to 'se.xually attract' HER to come after YOU...
... and no it is NOT impossible!
Let me give you an example...
You see, apart from teaching guys to be more successful with women, I am also an entrepreneur and I sell software products to my clients from all over the world.
For me, I tend to find it much EASIER to sell products to people who are ALREADY interested in my products or services rather than trying to cold call a prospective client and try to 'sell' it to them.
Imagine if you're a sales person who's job is to sell credit cards.
Don't you think it's much easier for you to close the sale when you have call-in or walk-in prospective clients who walks into the bank and tells you "I'm interested to apply for a credit card. What do you need?"
Same applies here when you're dating women.
You'll get far better results if you can "draw" her in & get HER interested to come after you instead.
Don't you think it'll be WAY easier to "close" her when she's ALREADY interested in you?
And exactly how do you do that?
Again in business.
What differentiates a successful multi-million dollar business from a struggling or an average "so-so" one?
The answer is 'differentiation'.
Successful business owners knows that in order for a customer to choose their products over their MANY other competitors, they will have to come out with a product, a business system or marketing concepts that are truly 'indifferent'.
The have to be unique and really STAND OUT from the rest.
Same goes in the seduction game.
If you want to become really successful in it, you've got to differentiate yourself by becoming truly unique, but in a very EXCITING and ATTRACTIVE way.
You see, if you've set your sight on a physically attractive woman, fact is that many other guys will ALSO find her attractive and would go straight on and hit on them.
On average, top-dog, hot looking women normally gets hit on at least, a minimum of 5-8 times -- every single day.
Now honestly ask yourself; what will your chances of 'scoring' with her be like if you were to act and do the EXACT SAME things like the the REST OF THE OTHER GUYS who are hitting on her that particular day?
Answer - most likely, zero.
If you really want to stand above the rest of them, you have to be truly unique and INDIFFERENT in your approach.
Most guys try to "convince" a woman to feel attracted to them by giving them compliments, gifts, buying them expensive dinners, etc with the HOPE that they will fall for them.
This NEVER works.
Attraction happens instantly or NOT at all.
Plain and simple.
Get that DRILLED into your head.
Don't be anything like the other clueless men, and start complementing her, be all submissive to her every demand, using cheesy pick-up lines, because women, esp beautiful ones, they are IMMUNE to such wussy like guys, its just too 'easy'/boring for them.
Instead, you should DEVELOP traits that women will normally find attractive in a man:
- Confidence (not acting insecure & needy) - Being unapologetic when you're talking to her in a charming & funny way - Not accepting bit.chy behaviour from her or anyone else - Have strong control of YOUR composure and SHOWING to her that you're not at all INTIMIDATED by her looks & let her know that SHE has to be the one to IMPRESS you - Flirtatious/charming character & body language
Having all these traits immediately throws women off their tracks because these are all things that they LEAST expect in their interactions with men.
I hope you're getting what I am trying to say here.
Oh and here's a little something on "pick-up lines"
Guys are always searching for the latest and best pick up lines.
My advice is - FORGET pick up lines.
At this day and age, women automatically turn themselves "off" to pick up lines, esp cheesy ones.
They get 'hit' by them over a thousand times in their lifetime - Don't get me wrong, really, REALLY good pick lines can work at times, but it can only get you as far as the first 30 seconds and that's it.
What happens AFTER you've run out of 'cool' lines then?
How are you going to "keep her interested" & keep the Game going then?
Bottom line, pick up lines are the OLD FASHIONED way of approaching women.
You want more great tips for free? Visit Zack's blog here : http://howtogetagirltolikeme.blogspot.com/
He has a big collection of articles on how to pick-up girls in different situations, all free!
First Date Tips: Making A Great First Impression On Women
The GuyGetsGirl dating guide is full of first date tips. First date tips such as ALWAYS look your best. I know this sounds REALLY obvious but you'd be surprised by how many men don't follow first date tips and don't understand the importance of this simple tip. You never know when the girl of your dreams will turn up, or where. And it's become a bit of a cliché because it's true -- first impressions really do count so you should pay close attention to the first date tips offered here and in the GuyGetsGirl guide.
Here are some first date tips figures to consider from my studies.
First date tips...If you make a GOOD first impression on a woman, you have a 90% chance of EVER getting with her at that point (10% of women for whatever reason will be unreachable for most men at ANY point - she might like women herself etc).
First date tips...If you make a BAD first impression your chances with her reduce drastically to just 20%. This means that to make her attracted to you AFTER the first 3 minutes of meeting her will be incredibly difficult if her first impressions of you were bad.
It's the difference between climbing a mountain and using a helicopter to fly up one. Good first impressions means you're on your way to the top in the helicopter, bad first impressions means you have a difficult climb to success - no helicopters for you.
Honestly, I can't stress this enough - (very important first date tips) always try to look your best. 5 S's of first date tips for first impressions.
First date tips - Shave. Shower. Stylish. Smell. Shoes.
Remember these 5 S's first date tips and always take care of them before you go out.
Why are shoes my number 5 S of my first date tips top 5? Your shoes are the FIRST thing a woman really notices about your clothing and hence your appearance. A first date tips tip is for you to make sure your shoes are clean and fashionable.
First Date Tips...A very important first date tips tip is that you should be careful what you wear because what you wear is very important. For first date tips I could try to recommend a certain look but as with all things fashionable by the time you read this it may have changed.
First Date Tips...Get the latest GQ magazine or other fashionable men's magazine's (they have great clothing first date tips) and imitate the styles you see there -- most women don't really care what labels you are wearing as long as you look good so you don't have to spend the Earth on clothing.
First Date Tips...Many guys who read the first date tips in the first date tips guide I help dress better usually comment on how strange they feel wearing clothes they are uncomfortable in, but nine times out of 10 they start to feel natural and even confident wearing their new wardrobe within days.
First Date Tips...Make sure you smell good. Again this is extremely important. Remember how you feel when a woman walks by you and she smells soooo good - you feel an instant attraction even though you don't know her - well, that's how women feel too.
First Date Tips...Wear a good-quality cologne, but don't spray too much.
First Date Tips...One squirt on both sides of the neck, and one squirt on both wrists -- maximum. You don't want to smell too overpowering.
First Date Tips...I recommend cool water by Davidoff or John Paul Gautier for Men (often called JPG love juice because women love it) if they don't sell it where you are try to order some from abroad, this stuff is GREAT!
And here's a GREAT little SECRET that I have found will help you actually pickup about 24% of women without SAYING a word to them! Not a single word! And NO rejection either. You won't find this anywhere else either. What you need to do is... Click Here
To read reviews about the top selling and most effective dating services on the web go to Guy Gets Girl
Here are some first date tips figures to consider from my studies.
First date tips...If you make a GOOD first impression on a woman, you have a 90% chance of EVER getting with her at that point (10% of women for whatever reason will be unreachable for most men at ANY point - she might like women herself etc).
First date tips...If you make a BAD first impression your chances with her reduce drastically to just 20%. This means that to make her attracted to you AFTER the first 3 minutes of meeting her will be incredibly difficult if her first impressions of you were bad.
It's the difference between climbing a mountain and using a helicopter to fly up one. Good first impressions means you're on your way to the top in the helicopter, bad first impressions means you have a difficult climb to success - no helicopters for you.
Honestly, I can't stress this enough - (very important first date tips) always try to look your best. 5 S's of first date tips for first impressions.
First date tips - Shave. Shower. Stylish. Smell. Shoes.
Remember these 5 S's first date tips and always take care of them before you go out.
Why are shoes my number 5 S of my first date tips top 5? Your shoes are the FIRST thing a woman really notices about your clothing and hence your appearance. A first date tips tip is for you to make sure your shoes are clean and fashionable.
First Date Tips...A very important first date tips tip is that you should be careful what you wear because what you wear is very important. For first date tips I could try to recommend a certain look but as with all things fashionable by the time you read this it may have changed.
First Date Tips...Get the latest GQ magazine or other fashionable men's magazine's (they have great clothing first date tips) and imitate the styles you see there -- most women don't really care what labels you are wearing as long as you look good so you don't have to spend the Earth on clothing.
First Date Tips...Many guys who read the first date tips in the first date tips guide I help dress better usually comment on how strange they feel wearing clothes they are uncomfortable in, but nine times out of 10 they start to feel natural and even confident wearing their new wardrobe within days.
First Date Tips...Make sure you smell good. Again this is extremely important. Remember how you feel when a woman walks by you and she smells soooo good - you feel an instant attraction even though you don't know her - well, that's how women feel too.
First Date Tips...Wear a good-quality cologne, but don't spray too much.
First Date Tips...One squirt on both sides of the neck, and one squirt on both wrists -- maximum. You don't want to smell too overpowering.
First Date Tips...I recommend cool water by Davidoff or John Paul Gautier for Men (often called JPG love juice because women love it) if they don't sell it where you are try to order some from abroad, this stuff is GREAT!
And here's a GREAT little SECRET that I have found will help you actually pickup about 24% of women without SAYING a word to them! Not a single word! And NO rejection either. You won't find this anywhere else either. What you need to do is... Click Here
To read reviews about the top selling and most effective dating services on the web go to Guy Gets Girl
Sunday, January 13, 2008
The 5 Reasons Why Men Fail With Women
Let’s face it, most men tend to overestimate themselves. They may have been given strength from their academic record or success at work or on the court, and feel that this success automatically transfers over into credit in the “woman department”. Unfortunately, this is almost never the case. These are the men that are left scratching their heads at the end of the evening when everything that they said or did went completely wrong. From my experience, here are just a few reasons why these men tend to misjudge themselves and fail.
1. Admission of error, means omission of error: Men like to be right, and conversely they do not like to admit when they are wrong. Because of this, they either create diversions, create excuses to cover it up, or try and explain it away.
2. Arrogance: Sometimes, a little arrogance is okay. But that place is often on the basketball court or in a sales meeting with a demanding client. Men should not be arrogant without due cause. Because of this, men tend to take advice from other men, that they perceive to be “less gifted intellectually, but more gifted with women”. This almost always leads to a mistake.
3. High performing men often have the social skills of a raccoon. Often times, in social settings they cannot communicate with other people, and this leads to an upset or offended woman, or possibly women.
4. Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. Have you ever tried to buy a car, and the salesman is persistently trying to sell you on a pick-up truck? Probably not. Then why do men continually try and apply logic to women that are more driven by emotions? Women like men who can make them feel like they truly understand them.
5. Cliché Techniques don’t work. Most men think that being charming and polite is the best solution. So, they take a page from the playbook that their mother taught them and proudly present their date with one dozen red roses on the first evening. This instantly places the man into a category that he does not want to be in, especially not this early in the evening!
Of course, these are just suggestions and mistakes that I’ve witnessed my friends making in the past. Some may be wrong, some pay be right, but overall, they are painfully accurate. Try not to over think the situation and resist those “cheesy impulses” that will have you labeled into “that Sweet guy I want to set my (homely) room mate up with”.
Chloe is a marketing executive with Meet2Go.com. She graduated from the UK's leading university and has over 8 years experience working at the largest ad firms in NYC and London. She is currently in charge of marketing and promotions for Meet2Go.com. Meet2Go is an activity based dating website that allows you post activities, or browse posted activities, and make new friends through common interests.
1. Admission of error, means omission of error: Men like to be right, and conversely they do not like to admit when they are wrong. Because of this, they either create diversions, create excuses to cover it up, or try and explain it away.
2. Arrogance: Sometimes, a little arrogance is okay. But that place is often on the basketball court or in a sales meeting with a demanding client. Men should not be arrogant without due cause. Because of this, men tend to take advice from other men, that they perceive to be “less gifted intellectually, but more gifted with women”. This almost always leads to a mistake.
3. High performing men often have the social skills of a raccoon. Often times, in social settings they cannot communicate with other people, and this leads to an upset or offended woman, or possibly women.
4. Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. Have you ever tried to buy a car, and the salesman is persistently trying to sell you on a pick-up truck? Probably not. Then why do men continually try and apply logic to women that are more driven by emotions? Women like men who can make them feel like they truly understand them.
5. Cliché Techniques don’t work. Most men think that being charming and polite is the best solution. So, they take a page from the playbook that their mother taught them and proudly present their date with one dozen red roses on the first evening. This instantly places the man into a category that he does not want to be in, especially not this early in the evening!
Of course, these are just suggestions and mistakes that I’ve witnessed my friends making in the past. Some may be wrong, some pay be right, but overall, they are painfully accurate. Try not to over think the situation and resist those “cheesy impulses” that will have you labeled into “that Sweet guy I want to set my (homely) room mate up with”.
Chloe is a marketing executive with Meet2Go.com. She graduated from the UK's leading university and has over 8 years experience working at the largest ad firms in NYC and London. She is currently in charge of marketing and promotions for Meet2Go.com. Meet2Go is an activity based dating website that allows you post activities, or browse posted activities, and make new friends through common interests.
Monday, January 7, 2008
5 Powerful First Date Tips for Men
After talking to a woman and getting to know her on the phone, it's time to set up your first date. But what actions should you take on the first date which can ensure future dates.
By now, you're probably wondering what you should say and where to take her. Perhaps, you might even entertain the thought of how to get her back to your place for a more intimate encounter.
In the next few paragraphs I'll show you a few tips that'll help you have an awesome first date.
Tip #1- Remove all expectations and worries
Probably the biggest problem which guys face on their first date is getting too worked up about being perfect. While it's important to make a good impression, you shouldn't put too much emphasis on say or doing the right thing.
An easy way to do this is to remove all expectations about any outcome. If it goes badly, then the only thing you've wasted is a little time and money. But if you have a great time, then you might find a great woman to take on future dates.
Tip #2- Limit your time
One big mistake that many guys make is to plan out this extravagant event for the first date. When you first meet a woman, you're using the time to qualify her as someone who might want to date in the future. The best way to do this is to meet her for coffee or a drink. That way, you haven't wasted too much of your resources on a woman who's not worth dating.
Tip #3- Be in control and plan out the date
Women are attracted to guys who are in control of their lives and make decisions. If you take the initiative and plan out your event, then you'll come across as more attractive. In addition, by telling her where you're going, you will be able to go to a place of your choosing and limit your time like I described in tip #2.
Tip #4- Have fun and flirt
The secret to having a great date is to build rapport and attraction. When you're out with her, this should be your first concern. If there is not attraction between the two of you, the date will go nowhere. So it's important to have a little fun and flirt with her.
This basically means that you look for every opportunity to tease her and bring sexual innuendo into the conversation. One of the best pieces of advice I've heard is from David DeAngelo of 'Double Your Dating'. He simply states you should treat all women your dating as a bratty little sister. If you can trip her up and tease her this way, you'll come across as more attractive.
Tip #5- Know when to break the rules
The previous four rules aren't set in stone. For instance, if the date is going well and you think you might end up sleeping with her that night, then you should forget about limiting your time. Just use these tips as you see fit and break them when they conflict with something that's working for you.
If you pay attention to these five tips, you'll end up having a lot more fun and excitement on your first dates. As a result, you'll discover it'll be a lot easier to build attraction and rapport with every woman you date.
Are you having trouble meeting and attracting women? In addition to learning about first date tips with women, there is a lot to discover about attracting beautiful women! Just take a look at Scott Patterson's FREE ebook: Seduction Secrets...Revealed! to receive
By now, you're probably wondering what you should say and where to take her. Perhaps, you might even entertain the thought of how to get her back to your place for a more intimate encounter.
In the next few paragraphs I'll show you a few tips that'll help you have an awesome first date.
Tip #1- Remove all expectations and worries
Probably the biggest problem which guys face on their first date is getting too worked up about being perfect. While it's important to make a good impression, you shouldn't put too much emphasis on say or doing the right thing.
An easy way to do this is to remove all expectations about any outcome. If it goes badly, then the only thing you've wasted is a little time and money. But if you have a great time, then you might find a great woman to take on future dates.
Tip #2- Limit your time
One big mistake that many guys make is to plan out this extravagant event for the first date. When you first meet a woman, you're using the time to qualify her as someone who might want to date in the future. The best way to do this is to meet her for coffee or a drink. That way, you haven't wasted too much of your resources on a woman who's not worth dating.
Tip #3- Be in control and plan out the date
Women are attracted to guys who are in control of their lives and make decisions. If you take the initiative and plan out your event, then you'll come across as more attractive. In addition, by telling her where you're going, you will be able to go to a place of your choosing and limit your time like I described in tip #2.
Tip #4- Have fun and flirt
The secret to having a great date is to build rapport and attraction. When you're out with her, this should be your first concern. If there is not attraction between the two of you, the date will go nowhere. So it's important to have a little fun and flirt with her.
This basically means that you look for every opportunity to tease her and bring sexual innuendo into the conversation. One of the best pieces of advice I've heard is from David DeAngelo of 'Double Your Dating'. He simply states you should treat all women your dating as a bratty little sister. If you can trip her up and tease her this way, you'll come across as more attractive.
Tip #5- Know when to break the rules
The previous four rules aren't set in stone. For instance, if the date is going well and you think you might end up sleeping with her that night, then you should forget about limiting your time. Just use these tips as you see fit and break them when they conflict with something that's working for you.
If you pay attention to these five tips, you'll end up having a lot more fun and excitement on your first dates. As a result, you'll discover it'll be a lot easier to build attraction and rapport with every woman you date.
Are you having trouble meeting and attracting women? In addition to learning about first date tips with women, there is a lot to discover about attracting beautiful women! Just take a look at Scott Patterson's FREE ebook: Seduction Secrets...Revealed! to receive
For Men Only: 7 Simple Secrets to Keeping the Fire Burning in Your Relationship Beyond Valentines Day
If this Valentines Day was typical, the flower and candy industry will make up for most of their financial losses on this day. They will sell every gift and teddy bear the public can afford and in some cases can't afford. However what they will not tell you is that by purchasing that candy, those flowers, that bear, you may in fact actually be destroying your relationship. It's not that those things are not good, they are.
The problem in so many relationships occurs a few weeks after Valentines Day. On Valentines Day, every woman observes what her husband or boyfriend is truly capable of romantically. The problem is that most men have no intention of keeping up that intensity level of romance. Why? Well, many men like feel as though it would be unreasonable to do so. For those men I offer 7 simple secrets to keep the fire in your relationship burning beyond Valentines Day.
Simple Secret # 1 Ask the Everyday Question
Ask the average man if women talk too much and he will happily say, "YES". The truth is though; most men do not realize that a woman's number two (2) need is communication. To keep the flame in a relationship burning, men must ask there wives about their day. Then shut up and listen...and listen...and listen...and listen.
Simple Secret # 2 Answer the Everyday Question
Tthe next step is to be prepared to answer the everyday question. If communication is truly a deep need for woman, it means men must have something to contribute to the conversation. Inevitably after applying simple secret #1, men will hear something like, "and how was your day". The temptation is to simply say "fine" or "okay" however to keep the flame burning, men must provide their wives with a detailed account of their day from the moment they awaken up to the moment he returned home from work. This is hard for men I know but it must be done.
Simple Secret # 3 Maintain a Steady Date Night
Listen up gentlemen. No woman dreams as a little girl that she will grow up to be a house wife that is taken for granted by her husband. She never wrote in her diary that her secret fantasy was to never see the inside of a nice restaurant except on her birthday, Valentines Day and her anniversary. To keep the flame in your relationship burning, you must establish with her and maintain a regular "date night" each week. Work with her and identify an evening where you will go out as you once did long ago. No one else is allowed to participate and no one else is allowed to break the established day and time of date night.
Simple Secret # 4 Put the Kids to Bed
Every woman I know gives a tremendous amount of energy to her kids, husband and job. A man, must be sensitive to the demands that are constantly placed on her. The average woman works between 15 and 17 hours per day. Factor in the efforts getting the kids ready for school in the morning, working all day, then helping the kids with their homework, cooking and serving dinner then putting the kids to bed at night, it's clear this fact to be true. To keep the relationship burning, at least once a week, take the initiative to get the kids ready for bed. Give them their bath, help them brush their teeth, read them a bedtime story, tuck them in and pray with them. Note: Kids may be shocked at your presence during bedtime but don't let that discourage you. Keep this up at least two (2) times a week.
Simple Secret # 5 Invest in a Bottle of Bubble Bath
While putting the kids to bed, what might your wife be doing? To keep the fire burning in, men must prepare a nice hot bubble bath. This will keep her in the bathroom away from the activities of the kids' preparation for bedtime. Prepare the tub, add the bubbles and run the water. Do not let her do any of this. This way, you can chase the kids around the house and get them to bed before she gets out of the tub. Note: An advanced secret is that after her bubble bath, offer her a massage.
Simple Secret # 6 Clean Up After the Kids
In my home, we fold clothes, wash dishes, vacuum, and make beds. Whatever it takes to lighten a wife's load, should be done. Keep the flame burning. Find every opportunity to become a burden bearer for that special woman. See the kids made mess in their room, don't walk around it. Take the initiative to clean up any mess before she does. Practice uncommon cleanliness and watch the difference it makes in a relationship.
Simple Secret # 7 Pay Attention Men true romance has nothing to do with flowers or candy at all. In fact true romance can be summed up in one simple phrase. To women, true romance means simply that as a boyfriend or husband are proactively meeting her unspoken needs. Serious about keeping the fire burning in your relationship? Become a student of that woman. Is she concerned about her weight. Why not invest in one of the many diet programs like, www.ReviewofMedifast.com and participate with her. Discover all over again what she likes and doesn't like. Go to a restaurant and order a meal along with desert for her without her being there to tell you what she wanted? As a child what did she always want to be when she grew up? Really pay attention to her. Begin to listen and take notes if need be. Anticipate her needs, lighten her load and tell her how special she is. Do this and guarantee that the fire will continue to burn in long after Valentines Day.
Brian Stephenson is the President of www.ReviewofMedifast.com a product review company based in Houston, Texas.
The problem in so many relationships occurs a few weeks after Valentines Day. On Valentines Day, every woman observes what her husband or boyfriend is truly capable of romantically. The problem is that most men have no intention of keeping up that intensity level of romance. Why? Well, many men like feel as though it would be unreasonable to do so. For those men I offer 7 simple secrets to keep the fire in your relationship burning beyond Valentines Day.
Simple Secret # 1 Ask the Everyday Question
Ask the average man if women talk too much and he will happily say, "YES". The truth is though; most men do not realize that a woman's number two (2) need is communication. To keep the flame in a relationship burning, men must ask there wives about their day. Then shut up and listen...and listen...and listen...and listen.
Simple Secret # 2 Answer the Everyday Question
Tthe next step is to be prepared to answer the everyday question. If communication is truly a deep need for woman, it means men must have something to contribute to the conversation. Inevitably after applying simple secret #1, men will hear something like, "and how was your day". The temptation is to simply say "fine" or "okay" however to keep the flame burning, men must provide their wives with a detailed account of their day from the moment they awaken up to the moment he returned home from work. This is hard for men I know but it must be done.
Simple Secret # 3 Maintain a Steady Date Night
Listen up gentlemen. No woman dreams as a little girl that she will grow up to be a house wife that is taken for granted by her husband. She never wrote in her diary that her secret fantasy was to never see the inside of a nice restaurant except on her birthday, Valentines Day and her anniversary. To keep the flame in your relationship burning, you must establish with her and maintain a regular "date night" each week. Work with her and identify an evening where you will go out as you once did long ago. No one else is allowed to participate and no one else is allowed to break the established day and time of date night.
Simple Secret # 4 Put the Kids to Bed
Every woman I know gives a tremendous amount of energy to her kids, husband and job. A man, must be sensitive to the demands that are constantly placed on her. The average woman works between 15 and 17 hours per day. Factor in the efforts getting the kids ready for school in the morning, working all day, then helping the kids with their homework, cooking and serving dinner then putting the kids to bed at night, it's clear this fact to be true. To keep the relationship burning, at least once a week, take the initiative to get the kids ready for bed. Give them their bath, help them brush their teeth, read them a bedtime story, tuck them in and pray with them. Note: Kids may be shocked at your presence during bedtime but don't let that discourage you. Keep this up at least two (2) times a week.
Simple Secret # 5 Invest in a Bottle of Bubble Bath
While putting the kids to bed, what might your wife be doing? To keep the fire burning in, men must prepare a nice hot bubble bath. This will keep her in the bathroom away from the activities of the kids' preparation for bedtime. Prepare the tub, add the bubbles and run the water. Do not let her do any of this. This way, you can chase the kids around the house and get them to bed before she gets out of the tub. Note: An advanced secret is that after her bubble bath, offer her a massage.
Simple Secret # 6 Clean Up After the Kids
In my home, we fold clothes, wash dishes, vacuum, and make beds. Whatever it takes to lighten a wife's load, should be done. Keep the flame burning. Find every opportunity to become a burden bearer for that special woman. See the kids made mess in their room, don't walk around it. Take the initiative to clean up any mess before she does. Practice uncommon cleanliness and watch the difference it makes in a relationship.
Simple Secret # 7 Pay Attention Men true romance has nothing to do with flowers or candy at all. In fact true romance can be summed up in one simple phrase. To women, true romance means simply that as a boyfriend or husband are proactively meeting her unspoken needs. Serious about keeping the fire burning in your relationship? Become a student of that woman. Is she concerned about her weight. Why not invest in one of the many diet programs like, www.ReviewofMedifast.com and participate with her. Discover all over again what she likes and doesn't like. Go to a restaurant and order a meal along with desert for her without her being there to tell you what she wanted? As a child what did she always want to be when she grew up? Really pay attention to her. Begin to listen and take notes if need be. Anticipate her needs, lighten her load and tell her how special she is. Do this and guarantee that the fire will continue to burn in long after Valentines Day.
Brian Stephenson is the President of www.ReviewofMedifast.com a product review company based in Houston, Texas.
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