If this is not a man's dream come true, what is? How could one possibly attract more women that he can handle, you wonder. It is actually much simpler than it sounds. Read on to find out more...
Here's one technique that works particularly well at nightclubs, bars and parties where there are a pool of people who do not know one another. Usually, this is one situation where guys usually feel inadequate in the presence of richer, better looking and better built guys. The great news is that none of this matters with this technique, and you can virtually pick one of the most gorgeous girl in the crowd.
To give you some idea, this technique gives you social value, which is something women look up to in a man above looks and money. They secretly want a boyfriend who is confident and very sociable that they want to take to meet their girlfriends. Being friendly and sociable is different than the class clown as you'll need to be admired too.
Making Your Presence Felt
If you're going to create a buzz, there's no better time to do it than during your entrance. Just like a celebrity walking into a room, you'll want people you know to come to you to greet you and shake your hands. Just how do you arrange for this? Well, one way to do this is to call up your friends to meet you by the entrance. However, if you want to really achieve a dramatic effect, work this out with a group of friends that could take turns in becoming 'the celebrity'. That way, they will be more enthusiastic upon playing the role of exciting friends, compared to your normal friends.
Smile And Introduce Yourself
Make like a celebrity and start smiling at anyone who is making eye contact with you in the room. Whenever you are available, walk over, smile and introduce yourself, it doesn't matter if they're guys or girls, although you can always spend longer time talking to the girls. Exude confidence by shaking their hands and making small physical contacts, such as putting your hands around a woman's shoulder when she leans over to tell you something.
Your focus of the night of course, are groups of girls that are preferably without the company of men. Trust one of them to introduce you to their friends and you'll be on your way to meeting more women than you can cope. Try to remember some of the names that you hear from from each group of people that you meet. It will usually be easier if you repeat after them when told. The night is still young so keep smiling, make friends but save your pick up lines for later.
Warm Up The Crowd By Introducing Others
So you have established some reputation in the room and people will start watching out for you and wonder who you really are. This can only work to your advantage as more girls are more noticing you and are more receptive to knowing you. As soon as any girl makes eye contact, you can walk over and do the charming thing over and over again. It gets easy once you get a hang of it.
Next, you want to work the crowd by taking it to the next level. Now that you know a bit about everyone, you can start introducing them to others as well. You may want to introduce a group of girls to another and not to other guys you have gotten to know in the party. Doing this will further reinforce the idea that you are the pulse of the party and a brilliant networker too. Plus, you are never short of opportunities to flirt with lots of girls if you follow this technique.
Everyone's Favorite
Now that you've got the crowd talking, the natural thing that they will talk about is YOU. Yes, you the celebrity, since you are the common link that they have at this stage. So you'll notice that when you come back to a particular group of people, they're all going to be wanting your attention.
This is the time where you can take your pick and spend longer time with the group of ladies you fancy and ask for phone numbers. Also, it may be a good idea to introduce your competitors at the beginning of the party to some of the girls that's outside your target. Why not show a little generosity, when you are already picking up more women than you can cope?
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Sunday, November 30, 2008
Mr. Perfect Does Not Exist!
The sooner you realize this sad but true fact, the sooner you can get on with finding Mr. Close-Enough-To-Perfect. Prince Charming, riding on a white stallion, lost his way or found Princess Charming and got married on his way to your castle. Get over it and get on with it. You ARE going to have to actively seek the man of your dreams and you won’t find him hiding under your bed. You already know that he isn’t among the men that you are acquainted with so, now what? Online dating is “what”.
It’s true that online dating, while in its infancy, was only made up of perverts, sexual predators, nerds and weirdoes but that is no longer true. It has become the main tool of the single person in every developed country in the world. Forty million people can’t all be wrong. Ask your girl friends if they have ever used online dating or are using it now. If they are honest with you, most of them have or are now members of at least one online dating site and maybe more than one. It really is the way to go to meet eligible men who want to meet you. It doesn’t matter what any of your numbers are…like age, height, weight or income either. Somewhere out there in the big wide world there is a man who will like you…..then love you….and think that you are beautiful and desirable. “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder” is true. What is considered beautiful in one part of the world is completely different from what is considered beautiful in another part of the world. It’s even different from one part of this country to another.
Find an online dating site that fits your needs. Write a great profile and post a flattering picture. Start contacting eligible men on the site. Mr. Close-enough-to-perfect could be a few mouse clicks away.
It’s true that online dating, while in its infancy, was only made up of perverts, sexual predators, nerds and weirdoes but that is no longer true. It has become the main tool of the single person in every developed country in the world. Forty million people can’t all be wrong. Ask your girl friends if they have ever used online dating or are using it now. If they are honest with you, most of them have or are now members of at least one online dating site and maybe more than one. It really is the way to go to meet eligible men who want to meet you. It doesn’t matter what any of your numbers are…like age, height, weight or income either. Somewhere out there in the big wide world there is a man who will like you…..then love you….and think that you are beautiful and desirable. “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder” is true. What is considered beautiful in one part of the world is completely different from what is considered beautiful in another part of the world. It’s even different from one part of this country to another.
Find an online dating site that fits your needs. Write a great profile and post a flattering picture. Start contacting eligible men on the site. Mr. Close-enough-to-perfect could be a few mouse clicks away.
Thursday, November 20, 2008
How to Become a Chick Magnet
Having the knowledge to attract women is the one of the most crucial skill that a man can have. There is no 'one size fits all' as different women will have different sets of qualities to look for in a man, and yours may not necessarily match the types of women you like. Likewise, men who are successful with women do not attract just one particular type of women. They did however, attract more than enough so they can just move on to the next person when they hit a dead end.
You can't go right to a woman and ask her out for a date without some sort of introduction for her to get to know you better, unless you want to be rejected. Although a woman may like what she see in you, such as your looks scent and your smile, she will be held back by her primitive sense of danger as she doesn't even know that you exist minutes ago. Plus, by being bold you set up a platform of failure for yourself, if not appearing to be desperate, and potentially make her feel scared and pushed. While you can't ask her out right away, you can put her at ease by striking up a friendly conversation with her.
It is not overrated when people tell you just how much the gift of the gab can help in the art of dating. With just a few minutes of talking you can get them to feel like they know you long enough to warrant a date. You'll want to appear confident and casual during this conversation, not tense, desperate or pushy or she can see through it instantly.
Be sure that you practice and perfect your speaking so in the actual conversation you can focus on her replies rather than how you sound yourself. This is because it is crucial to listen to what she is telling you and respond accordingly so she will feel that the two of you are communicating well. In order to make her feel special, you can compliment her on something that is particular on her, be it the earrings she is wearing, her easy going laughter or her glittering eyes. You just have to observe her for a while for these qualities before approaching her. Be honest though - surely you can find something you genuinely like about her to compliment on.
However, you must be limiting your compliments away from topics sensitive to women, such as body size, shape and weight. Certainly, your compliments should not be sexually related as well, as this will make her uncomfortable and raise her guards against you.
The best bet is to compliment a women on the first thing about them that got your attention to eventually approach her. While it is safe to compliment her on her eyes and smile, she has probably heard it before many times, especially if she is good looking. To come up with more original introduction, try complimenting her voice or her hands, at the same time avoiding body parts such as thigh, cheek, butt and breasts.
Next, you need to use what psychologists call 'the constraint of choice', a persuasive trick to get her telephone number. The trick is to give her two options when they're really only one. For example, if you ask for her phone number as you usually would, she will have two options, that is whether to give it to you or not. But then when she is given a choice whether to arrange a date now or later through the phone, you know which one she'll choose because essentially, she really have only one choice. This is a gentle strategy to persuade her to give you her contact number.
Obviously, it takes time and experience to perfect your skills. This is also why older men have more luck with women. Becoming a chick magnet is a skill that can be acquired overtime through practice as well as trial and error.
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You can learn much more about the world of dating at my guy gets girl review website
You can't go right to a woman and ask her out for a date without some sort of introduction for her to get to know you better, unless you want to be rejected. Although a woman may like what she see in you, such as your looks scent and your smile, she will be held back by her primitive sense of danger as she doesn't even know that you exist minutes ago. Plus, by being bold you set up a platform of failure for yourself, if not appearing to be desperate, and potentially make her feel scared and pushed. While you can't ask her out right away, you can put her at ease by striking up a friendly conversation with her.
It is not overrated when people tell you just how much the gift of the gab can help in the art of dating. With just a few minutes of talking you can get them to feel like they know you long enough to warrant a date. You'll want to appear confident and casual during this conversation, not tense, desperate or pushy or she can see through it instantly.
Be sure that you practice and perfect your speaking so in the actual conversation you can focus on her replies rather than how you sound yourself. This is because it is crucial to listen to what she is telling you and respond accordingly so she will feel that the two of you are communicating well. In order to make her feel special, you can compliment her on something that is particular on her, be it the earrings she is wearing, her easy going laughter or her glittering eyes. You just have to observe her for a while for these qualities before approaching her. Be honest though - surely you can find something you genuinely like about her to compliment on.
However, you must be limiting your compliments away from topics sensitive to women, such as body size, shape and weight. Certainly, your compliments should not be sexually related as well, as this will make her uncomfortable and raise her guards against you.
The best bet is to compliment a women on the first thing about them that got your attention to eventually approach her. While it is safe to compliment her on her eyes and smile, she has probably heard it before many times, especially if she is good looking. To come up with more original introduction, try complimenting her voice or her hands, at the same time avoiding body parts such as thigh, cheek, butt and breasts.
Next, you need to use what psychologists call 'the constraint of choice', a persuasive trick to get her telephone number. The trick is to give her two options when they're really only one. For example, if you ask for her phone number as you usually would, she will have two options, that is whether to give it to you or not. But then when she is given a choice whether to arrange a date now or later through the phone, you know which one she'll choose because essentially, she really have only one choice. This is a gentle strategy to persuade her to give you her contact number.
Obviously, it takes time and experience to perfect your skills. This is also why older men have more luck with women. Becoming a chick magnet is a skill that can be acquired overtime through practice as well as trial and error.
About the Author
You can learn much more about the world of dating at my guy gets girl review website
How Do I Choose the Right Site For Me?
With the explosion of online dating sites has come a virtual smorgasbord of choices. There are free sites… I don’t recommend those but if money is a real concern, they are better than nothing. There are the large paid sites with many and varied features like chat, IM and even matching using profiles. There are the less expensive paid sites with few features. There are special interest sites for almost any thing you can think of...outdoor enthusiasts, couch potatoes, religious, non-religious, gays, lesbians…like I said…almost anything you can think of. So what’s a girl to do? A girl should choose the site or sites that best fit her needs.
Here are some things to consider:
(1) Cost. How much do you want or how much can you spend each month for your membership (s)?
(2) Features. Which features are the most important to you?
(A) Profile matching systems. Is this a feature you really want or would you rather decide who is right for you all by yourself?
(B) Chat and IM’s? There are websites who offer chat rooms and IM’s on their sites. Does that matter or would you be happy just sticking to private email.
(C) Outside Events…such as speed dating? Are you interested in that?
(D) Privacy. Some websites allow you to limit who can view your picture or your profile. Does this matter to you or do you want as wide exposure as you can have?
(E) Safety. There are websites who do background checks of all subscribers and certify their age, marital status and background. Would you feel safer using this feature?
These are a few things but not all things you should consider when choosing an online dating service or services. Do your homework and choose wisely for the best results for you.
Here are some things to consider:
(1) Cost. How much do you want or how much can you spend each month for your membership (s)?
(2) Features. Which features are the most important to you?
(A) Profile matching systems. Is this a feature you really want or would you rather decide who is right for you all by yourself?
(B) Chat and IM’s? There are websites who offer chat rooms and IM’s on their sites. Does that matter or would you be happy just sticking to private email.
(C) Outside Events…such as speed dating? Are you interested in that?
(D) Privacy. Some websites allow you to limit who can view your picture or your profile. Does this matter to you or do you want as wide exposure as you can have?
(E) Safety. There are websites who do background checks of all subscribers and certify their age, marital status and background. Would you feel safer using this feature?
These are a few things but not all things you should consider when choosing an online dating service or services. Do your homework and choose wisely for the best results for you.
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
Blind Date vs Internet Date
Your friend has decided that you need help with your social life so she sets you up with a blind date….a friend of a friend of a friend. You, foolishly, accept. Now there you are. It’s less than one hour since you were introduced. You are sitting in a Thai restaurant and you hate Thai food. The entr้e has not yet been served. His idea of enlightened conversation is who will be in the final four…you aren’t into sports. He knows the weekly TV schedule verbatim….you haven’t sat through a movie in months because you run marathons and volunteer at the local food bank. He says, “Volunteering is a waste of time because you can’t help ‘those people’ anyway.” You look at your watch; see that it’s only been 10 minutes since you last looked at it the last time and wonder how long it is before you can gracefully remove yourself from the situation. Been there?
Now imagine a date with someone you met through internet dating and have been chatting online with and exchanging emails with for quite some time. First, you don’t need to be introduced. You already know this man. You are sitting in an Italian restaurant enjoying a delightful meal because you both know that the other’s favorite is Italian. The conversation flows easily as you discuss common interests. He runs marathons and loves history just like you do. You happily discuss the volunteer work that each of you is involved in. You look at your watch and discover that it is late…very late…where Has the time gone.
There is a big difference between a well-intentioned friend “setting you up” and choosing a man for yourself who shares your interests and tastes, isn’t there? Now which one would you rather have?
Now imagine a date with someone you met through internet dating and have been chatting online with and exchanging emails with for quite some time. First, you don’t need to be introduced. You already know this man. You are sitting in an Italian restaurant enjoying a delightful meal because you both know that the other’s favorite is Italian. The conversation flows easily as you discuss common interests. He runs marathons and loves history just like you do. You happily discuss the volunteer work that each of you is involved in. You look at your watch and discover that it is late…very late…where Has the time gone.
There is a big difference between a well-intentioned friend “setting you up” and choosing a man for yourself who shares your interests and tastes, isn’t there? Now which one would you rather have?
Monday, November 10, 2008
Top 5 Tips For Picking Up Women Online
If life is like a box of chocolate, online dating is like a jungle filled with sly foxes, two-headed snakes and wild predators. You never know what you are going to get. For this very reason, women are especially cautious and selective about who they mingle with online, let alone allowing themselves to have expectations about finding decent men on the internet.
If you want to bypass their armor and meet them for real dates that can blossom into relationships, there are a few pointers that you have to follow.
Tips #1 : Call her by her name.
Calling women by affectionate names like Honey or Babe may seem like a cool thing to men but for for for the women, this is a big turn-off. For them, the stranger that you are are either looking to 'get lucky', treating women with the same respect as some desirable objects (yes, it's that serious) or a jerk who thinks he's a casanova. Either way, it's a major red flag since she don't know who you are and you definitely do not 'own' her. Ever heard of 'I'm not your honey"? Now you understand what it means.
The best bet is to address her by her name if she did tell you, or her nickname if she didn't. It's a great way to be friendly without overdoing it. The rule is if you don't even respect her enough to use her name, you probably don't deserve a reply to your message.
Tips #2 : Do not make sexual hints or remarks about her body.
They say flattery will make a women melt, but making uncalled for comments about her body is disastrous, even when they are good comments. If anything, how good her body is is really none of your business. Apart from her eyes, everything you say about her body will wipe off any kind of relationship you've built with her before as she go "Aha! So that's what you're looking for. I knew it!"
You could be banned for making those remarks is she were to make a report to the site administrator. If this is your style of picking up women, they'll be appreciated in adult dating sites, although more often than not, you may have to pay those women to meet up. It all depends on what sort of women you want to meet. If you are serious about meeting someone special for a relationship, be a nice member on regular dating site and be tactful.
Tips #3 : Have a genuine profile.
There's a rule about profiles, that is it is better not to disclose undesirable information than to lie about it. If you are not comfortable about some questions about yourself, choose not to answer them until you know her better. Making up lies will only makes things worst if they you got found out. She may not mind that you are shorter than her but by lying, you put your integrity on the table and this may leave a bad impression on her.
You want someone who wants you for you, not for the lies and stories that you cook up. The same goes to you. Wouldn't you hate it if a girl were to disappoint you with fake details about herself?
Tips #4 : Use a recent picture.
Never use a picture back in time when you are still slim / have lots of hair / young. Remember, you want to come across as genuine and sincere, so use use recent pictures that highlight your good features in various scenes. It should be ideally a combination of photos - one close up that show your face clearly, a waist level shot if you want to show off your body or pictures of you going about your colorful life such as mountain climbing, traveling or hanging out with friends. Lastly don't forget to smile!
If you have good reasons not to publicly place your face shot, find an alternative to send it along your messages to people that you contact. Ideally, she should not have to ask for this.
Tips #5 : Ask the right questions.
You will find that women ask you questions about yourself in their messages. While many men will just answer them without much thought and without asking them back, women interprete it as lack of chemistry or interest on your part.
Knowing what types of questions to ask is also crucial to give her an impression of your communication ability, compatibility and a sense of bonding. After all, a woman need to feel that her feelings and thoughts are understood by a man before she decides that he is someone she wants to date. Keep questions as general as possible in the beginning so it don't seem that you are trying to kill her privacy. Another challenge for men when it comes to communicating with women is the fact that they are too fact-oriented when women are need to talk about feelings and experiences. Master this and you will have no trouble picking women online.
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You can learn much more about the world of dating at my guy gets girl review website
If you want to bypass their armor and meet them for real dates that can blossom into relationships, there are a few pointers that you have to follow.
Tips #1 : Call her by her name.
Calling women by affectionate names like Honey or Babe may seem like a cool thing to men but for for for the women, this is a big turn-off. For them, the stranger that you are are either looking to 'get lucky', treating women with the same respect as some desirable objects (yes, it's that serious) or a jerk who thinks he's a casanova. Either way, it's a major red flag since she don't know who you are and you definitely do not 'own' her. Ever heard of 'I'm not your honey"? Now you understand what it means.
The best bet is to address her by her name if she did tell you, or her nickname if she didn't. It's a great way to be friendly without overdoing it. The rule is if you don't even respect her enough to use her name, you probably don't deserve a reply to your message.
Tips #2 : Do not make sexual hints or remarks about her body.
They say flattery will make a women melt, but making uncalled for comments about her body is disastrous, even when they are good comments. If anything, how good her body is is really none of your business. Apart from her eyes, everything you say about her body will wipe off any kind of relationship you've built with her before as she go "Aha! So that's what you're looking for. I knew it!"
You could be banned for making those remarks is she were to make a report to the site administrator. If this is your style of picking up women, they'll be appreciated in adult dating sites, although more often than not, you may have to pay those women to meet up. It all depends on what sort of women you want to meet. If you are serious about meeting someone special for a relationship, be a nice member on regular dating site and be tactful.
Tips #3 : Have a genuine profile.
There's a rule about profiles, that is it is better not to disclose undesirable information than to lie about it. If you are not comfortable about some questions about yourself, choose not to answer them until you know her better. Making up lies will only makes things worst if they you got found out. She may not mind that you are shorter than her but by lying, you put your integrity on the table and this may leave a bad impression on her.
You want someone who wants you for you, not for the lies and stories that you cook up. The same goes to you. Wouldn't you hate it if a girl were to disappoint you with fake details about herself?
Tips #4 : Use a recent picture.
Never use a picture back in time when you are still slim / have lots of hair / young. Remember, you want to come across as genuine and sincere, so use use recent pictures that highlight your good features in various scenes. It should be ideally a combination of photos - one close up that show your face clearly, a waist level shot if you want to show off your body or pictures of you going about your colorful life such as mountain climbing, traveling or hanging out with friends. Lastly don't forget to smile!
If you have good reasons not to publicly place your face shot, find an alternative to send it along your messages to people that you contact. Ideally, she should not have to ask for this.
Tips #5 : Ask the right questions.
You will find that women ask you questions about yourself in their messages. While many men will just answer them without much thought and without asking them back, women interprete it as lack of chemistry or interest on your part.
Knowing what types of questions to ask is also crucial to give her an impression of your communication ability, compatibility and a sense of bonding. After all, a woman need to feel that her feelings and thoughts are understood by a man before she decides that he is someone she wants to date. Keep questions as general as possible in the beginning so it don't seem that you are trying to kill her privacy. Another challenge for men when it comes to communicating with women is the fact that they are too fact-oriented when women are need to talk about feelings and experiences. Master this and you will have no trouble picking women online.
About the Author
You can learn much more about the world of dating at my guy gets girl review website
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