Hmm... How To Make Voicemail Work For You!

Reprinted from an email:

"You need to understand the story to appreciate the phone message.

A couple of weeks ago, on a Sunday at a church, this guy was staring at my little sister's friend all through the meeting. He was a normal looking guy, and she is cute girl. After the service ended, he bolted to the end of her pugh, and stumbled his way through an invitation to go out some time. She felt a little awkward, but giving him the benefit of the doubt that he was just nervous, she gave him her phone number and said "sure they could hang out sometime." A few minutes later as she was getting into her car to drive home she got a text message, from this nervous boy, saying how excited he was to go out with her and how gorgeous he thought she was. Feeling a little more uncomfortable, the girl brushed it off and went about her day.

THE FOLLOWING DAY SHE RECEIVED THE ATTACHED PHONE MESSAGE FROM THIS SAME BOY!

Now I don't claim to be Casanova (despite the constant comparisons) but, in this situation, I ask you. . . .Is this the phone message that you would leave with a girl, the day after you meet her at church, when trying to play the game, play it cool, play hard to get, and impress her? If this doesn't paint the perfect stereotype picture of why so many men are single at 40 and confused why it never worked out with a lady I don't know what does. Ok, now listen to the attached phone message"

Click here to download the MP3.

Let me know how effective this is guys,

Donovan

If A Woman Talks About Other Men

The model I went out with recently commented about how she had a date with a guy next Friday and therefore couldn't "hang out".

I think this is awesome!

If a woman mentions something about other men, most guys think shes trying to blow you off. However, I intepret it as her trying to qualify herself to you, because you obviously see other women, and she doesn't want to feel as if she isn't worth you're attention. A DHV for her!

There are alot of disagreements about this from AFCs, and other (less successful) within the community.

As David DeAngelo says, "tests" as this one is, are always usually a great IOI (Indicator of Interest), that can only reaffirm her attachment to you further.

A test?

Yes, a test. Because you could say, "Oh you're going on a date..., oh ok. Great. Cool" (AWKWARD!)

Or...

"Oh thats awesome, I'm glad you're getting attention from men these days!" "Why don't you cancel it with him, so you could have the possiblity of hanging out with me instead?" (She rarely will cancel) Just say "Joking, I already have plans, we can hangout next week when we both have some time."

Any other lines we could use? Comment.

Donovan

Afternoon Delight Music Video

Something off base quickly today. My girlfriend sent me this video. My favorite DVD has been Anchorman for awhile now, and Afternoon Delight is somewhat related to seduction... ?!

"I don't know how to put this, but I'm kind of a big deal..."
-Ron Burgandy

Enjoy!

Neil Strauss and Jessica Alba (Video)

Hey, I finally uploaded my Jimmy Kimmel Live video so all you guys can watch Style on TV.

I uploaded to Google Video. You can view it here



Donovan

From Nerd to PUA

Hey, check out this Loverboy video about his transformation from AFC to stud. It's pretty funny if nothing else. (If he has a chance like that... what are the better looking guys capable of... j/k)

"Tribute To Sarging" by Loverboy

Video taken down.

How To Transition To Boyfriend Status

How to go from pickup to boyfriend status... my dilemna!

I was curious I'm fairly comfortable with pickup, seduction, but those first 2-3 months seem to be the most essential for getting that high quality girl as your girlfriend.

Any tips on the transition from cocky funny, alpha male, etc through to having her wanting to be your boyfriend? (Obviously you wouldn't remove that from you're game totally) There is a point where it can become too much, or the material runs low.

Strategies, ideas, techniques for the transition from casual relationship to committed relationship?

My thought's are: how do you not start to appear needy, etc and how do you generate that desire in them to start being interested in being your girlfriend. I'm talking 2-3 month period here, after intimacy, after 10-14 hours of hanging out.

Post your comments below!

Along Came A Model...

I think I can die happy soon...

I had a date with a HB9 last night. She's South African, 5'10, and extremely cool.

I actually met her online, through a college friends site. I messaged her saying if she knew someone at her high school etc. We conversed for 15 minutes on MSN, got her number, and she owed me hot chocolate for me telling her my height (5'8 haha).

I think the trick was while we were talking on MSN, it setup the overall frame. I played a very charming role, but didn't hestitate to bust on her when she displayed what we both call a "model moment".

A part of the conversation went something like this when I tried to setup the date:

Her: I've actually got a class Tuesday from 9-10.
Me: That's amazing, is that a special class for insominacs?
Her: Its for blah blah class.
Her: Oh wait. You mean at night?
Me: And you were doing soooo well!
Her: Haha. No WAY! That was a blonde moment.
Me: Wow, defintely a model moment there.
Her: I'm not like that normally!!
Me: I'll have to take you're word for it...

Anyways, all we did for the date was go to a service station get some hot chocolate, went to a park, sat and talked. I DHV'd through stories, mindreading (even if she didn't pick 7, I said she had some weird aura that destroyed the process), busting on the mistakes guys make with her (treating her too nice, etc) and displaying a brief vunerable side. Towards the end of the night, she said "You know why I like you so much?" I said, while holding up my hands "I don't really have enough fingers on my hands, but give me just ONE." "Because you don't treat me like glass!" "Guys are way to nice on dates, and never tease me when I have a blonde moment, they just act like it didn't happen!"

And on...

I basically asked her in an intial message if she knew this girl that looked like a celebrity, like I mentioned earlier.

Well, she asked what my darkest secret is... and I told her.

I said: "I never needed to know if you knew that friend from school, I could find out in 5 minutes what her phone number is through a friend."

She said with a huge smile and blushing: "I'm so flattered!"

I presume she already knew that though, but it showed balls admitting it.

I think just like David Deangelo says, is you can say charming, almost corny things if you get her in the right frame. This showed her that I wasn't all cocky and funny, or alpha. I did have a side that was "human", or "emotionally vunerable". The reason for that is, it took balls to say that. Normally a guy will never tell them the excuse, and I normally wouldn't either, but the frame was there that I was dominant from DHV's, her IOI's, throughout the 2 hour date. (But you have to calibrate, and you don't want to be too dominant, just alittle abit, you still want to seem attainable as The-Approach article I posted a month ago talked about) This was last night.

She called me this morning at 8am and woke me up, and told me 3 days in advance that she forgot about driving school (shes pushed it back 4 times) that she must take, and suggested hanging out after, and also Saturday. (Last night we setup to go to a Volleyball game for Fri)

I'll keep you posted on this gem as it develops further,
Donovan