There are dating rules for men every red-blooded male ought to live by. Not only will these dating rules for men ensure your lady friend has an enjoyable evening, but they will also save you the embarrassment of committing dating faux pas later on. So before you thrust yourself head-on into the exciting and unpredictable world of dating, read on.
Dress to kill. Okay, maybe not quite, but do dress to impress. Throw on something decent and suitable for the occasion. A tux on a first date seems hardly appropriate, while too rugged a look may be off-putting. Play it safe and go neutral. Smart casual is a good choice. Then work your way from there should the two of you decide to keep dating and are more comfortable with each other's personal tastes.
Be hygienic. Sort out your tangled hair and get a decent haircut if time allows it. Go to good quality shops for decent cologne and a grooming kit. It can be time-consuming; but men are always criticized if they smell bad, so try to get into a regular shower routine so you can smell wonderful afterwards. A woman appreciates that.
Strive to improve at work as well. A man with ambition is appealing to women. Try to get some direction in your life. Get yourself on track with career opportunities. Women will question you about prospects at your work so you cannot pretend it is not important.
Try to be more mature. Getting your brain well fed is a plus. Humor is appreciated, but a woman prefers maturity. Do not let your love for sports be more of a priority than your lady. Millions of women love sports, but ramming your love for it down her throat is not advisable. Many women are not interested about current gaming consoles, they may be more interested in traveling and how you think about the outside world.
Limit yourself if you drink too much booze. Being a drunken party-boy will never leave a positive impression with your date. If you happen to be a smoker, reduce the times you smoke; or better yet, quit smoking altogether.
Do not be aggressive on the first date. This is a horrible way to think. Being patient will lead you to the girl of your dreams. Learn to wait and try to find other ways where you can make a connection with your date. This is probably the most important dating rule for men.
A woman loves a man with brains. Having basic manners, chivalry and courtesy attracts women. They love to be treated with respect. Avoid bad language, laziness and rudeness. Know how to be a gentleman who knows how to act properly with manners. Holding a door open for her is simple, yet women know it takes effort on your part. Be sensitive. Showing her a lot of respect is a great step forward.
Listen more; talk less. If it seems like you are ignoring her, her ego might get hurt. Try to listen to her when she speaks, women appreciate it if they know you are paying attention. Here's a unique dating rule for men: learn how to dance. Many women love to dance, so even if you have no dancing talent, at least give your best effort. Think of dancing as a romantic and sexy activity. It does not matter if you dance badly - at least she is dancing with you rather than with someone else.
Learn these dating rules for men by heart and you'll win hers before the night is over.
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Tuesday, November 20, 2007
Advice for Men - Why You Should Get Involved With Online Dating
Online dating is considered to be a gift from god. It is like speaking to a gorgeous woman in your own house as opposed to getting all dressed up to meet at a club or bar without any previous knowledge of her. Here is a small list of reasons why online dating is considered highly beneficial.
1) Some guys just do not have the time to go out.
The average person today leads a pretty busy lifestyle. Just try to imagine how many times you would have to go out and mingle with other women before finding the right one. It is highly unlikely that you will find the right woman the first time you go out.
Over time, this strenuous process will cost you a whole lot of wasted time and effort. Online dating can actually fit into any schedule at any time. Typically, the research can be done without any hassle.
2) Online dating sites are free to join and research.
For the most part, a lot of good dating sites are free to join and research. The only time they will cost you money is when you decide to link with another match you have found on their service. This is a great feature because it means you will be aware of the interests of the woman you have found before deciding to contact her. This method is much less time consuming than having to date repeatedly before finding the right woman.
3) You are able to hide your real identity.
With any online dating service you can remain anonymous in order to protect your identity. When the time is right and you feel comfortable with the woman you contacted, you can reveal yourself. If you decide she is not right for you, you can easily end the conversation without worrying about being stalked.
Just imagine you contact a woman that works with you on your job and things go badly on the site. Your work life would be impacted and you would feel awkward about even going to work and having to face her. Each time you enter your office, you would feel as though her friends and others are constantly judging you.
4) There are many women who seek alternative relationships.
In today's dating world, there are many women who do not want to be involved in a typical relationship. For that reason, online dating is absolutely perfect. While using an anonymous profile, you can easily seek out women who are interested in whatever specified relationship type you want. This helps you to protect yourself against women who would take offense to that particular lifestyle or preference.
5) You are able to keep as private as possible.
Donald Mckenzie Jr has over 5 years of experience in the dating world. He is an excellent dating enthusiast and uses many techniques to engage beautiful women. For access to Donald's articles and tips, please visit his website. http://becoming-a-pick-up-artist.blogspot.com
Try to imagine what it is like trying to hold a good conversation with a beautiful woman in a club or large sized bar. The music is blaring, people are speaking loudly, and there are even people trying to get into your conversation. This is where online dating steps in. You can stay at home in a quiet setting and not have the fear of someone eavesdropping in on your conversation. You can even spend as much time as you want talking with her.
6) You are able to pick from a wide variety of dating websites.
Over the past few years, the online dating community has grown tremendously. There are dozens or perhaps even hundreds of websites with reviews of popular dating services. The beauty of being online is that you can freely browse through and test multiple dating sites in little time. Instead of having to drive around and visit different agencies, you are able to simulate that same action with the click of a mouse.
The internet has been a major help to men who prefer dating online rather than in person right away. Although online dating has many great benefits, you must remember to keep yourself as safe as possible at all times. Keep an eye on the information you divulge to others on the internet. This same information can comeback and haunt you in some other type of form.
Copyright 2007 Donald Mckenzie Jr
1) Some guys just do not have the time to go out.
The average person today leads a pretty busy lifestyle. Just try to imagine how many times you would have to go out and mingle with other women before finding the right one. It is highly unlikely that you will find the right woman the first time you go out.
Over time, this strenuous process will cost you a whole lot of wasted time and effort. Online dating can actually fit into any schedule at any time. Typically, the research can be done without any hassle.
2) Online dating sites are free to join and research.
For the most part, a lot of good dating sites are free to join and research. The only time they will cost you money is when you decide to link with another match you have found on their service. This is a great feature because it means you will be aware of the interests of the woman you have found before deciding to contact her. This method is much less time consuming than having to date repeatedly before finding the right woman.
3) You are able to hide your real identity.
With any online dating service you can remain anonymous in order to protect your identity. When the time is right and you feel comfortable with the woman you contacted, you can reveal yourself. If you decide she is not right for you, you can easily end the conversation without worrying about being stalked.
Just imagine you contact a woman that works with you on your job and things go badly on the site. Your work life would be impacted and you would feel awkward about even going to work and having to face her. Each time you enter your office, you would feel as though her friends and others are constantly judging you.
4) There are many women who seek alternative relationships.
In today's dating world, there are many women who do not want to be involved in a typical relationship. For that reason, online dating is absolutely perfect. While using an anonymous profile, you can easily seek out women who are interested in whatever specified relationship type you want. This helps you to protect yourself against women who would take offense to that particular lifestyle or preference.
5) You are able to keep as private as possible.
Donald Mckenzie Jr has over 5 years of experience in the dating world. He is an excellent dating enthusiast and uses many techniques to engage beautiful women. For access to Donald's articles and tips, please visit his website. http://becoming-a-pick-up-artist.blogspot.com
Try to imagine what it is like trying to hold a good conversation with a beautiful woman in a club or large sized bar. The music is blaring, people are speaking loudly, and there are even people trying to get into your conversation. This is where online dating steps in. You can stay at home in a quiet setting and not have the fear of someone eavesdropping in on your conversation. You can even spend as much time as you want talking with her.
6) You are able to pick from a wide variety of dating websites.
Over the past few years, the online dating community has grown tremendously. There are dozens or perhaps even hundreds of websites with reviews of popular dating services. The beauty of being online is that you can freely browse through and test multiple dating sites in little time. Instead of having to drive around and visit different agencies, you are able to simulate that same action with the click of a mouse.
The internet has been a major help to men who prefer dating online rather than in person right away. Although online dating has many great benefits, you must remember to keep yourself as safe as possible at all times. Keep an eye on the information you divulge to others on the internet. This same information can comeback and haunt you in some other type of form.
Copyright 2007 Donald Mckenzie Jr
Common Dating Mistakes that Men Make
Dating is a minefield of potential mistakes just waiting for an unsuspecting guy to tread on, but there are some mistakes that seem to get repeated more than others. Here are some of the more 'popular' ones:
Assumptions-- assuming that the girl will go wherever you suggest, assuming that if you like something then your date will also love it, assuming that if you make a decision then it's decided whether she has an opinion on it or not, assuming that she won't mind if the date includes your buddies, assuming she'll love a particular movie because your ex adored it, assuming she won't mind you turning up at her home unannounced after you've had a night out with your mates, assuming that it's perfectly ok for you to go to the game every week without her even though it's her one day off work a week, and so on! Never assume anything, least of all your girl staying around if you continually assume she's happy with everything you do and say!
Comparison-- comparing a date with either one of your ex girl friends, or your mother! Ex girl friends should be a given and no you shouldn't even voice those comparisons aloud to anyone even your best bud because you never know if it'll get back to her and she's not going to be happy when it does! It could be that you think it's a complement to compare your date to your mother because you think your mom is super cool and a wonderful person. Your date on the other hand probably doesn't know this about your mom, and so to her you are saying she's old! Girls are pretty touchy on the subject of age so avoid this landmine!
Underestimating: girls are resourceful. VERY resourceful! They have an information network that the CIA would envy. You don't know what they know or how they know it, so if you're hiding something get it out in the open because you can be very sure that if it's out there, they're going to find it! They may not go looking for it, but because of their social networks, information will come into their hands 2nd hand, 3rd hand and beyond, but come it will, and so it's far better than it comes from you! If you're married, if you were ditched by your ex, if you've got children somewhere, if you've been "inside", once you get into a slightly steady relationship, you need to give her the information before someone else does. You may not get a good reaction, but it's going to be better than if she learns it from someone else. Not all girls are alike and so treat each one that you date as a new experience without any of the baggage from other relationships. Don't have expectations of this date because of what your last date did. Don't think that because your last date yelled at you for opening a door for her that this date doesn't appreciate your thoughtfulness. Above all, be sincere because probably the most common mistake that guys make when dating girls is in not playing things straight. Make sure that you're honest about who you are, and where you are in life. Your date may not like what she hears, but at least she knows where she stands.
Jane Saeman runs a site called along with info on dating and relationship on her blog at at http://www.Hot-Firefighters.com/blog2
Assumptions-- assuming that the girl will go wherever you suggest, assuming that if you like something then your date will also love it, assuming that if you make a decision then it's decided whether she has an opinion on it or not, assuming that she won't mind if the date includes your buddies, assuming she'll love a particular movie because your ex adored it, assuming she won't mind you turning up at her home unannounced after you've had a night out with your mates, assuming that it's perfectly ok for you to go to the game every week without her even though it's her one day off work a week, and so on! Never assume anything, least of all your girl staying around if you continually assume she's happy with everything you do and say!
Comparison-- comparing a date with either one of your ex girl friends, or your mother! Ex girl friends should be a given and no you shouldn't even voice those comparisons aloud to anyone even your best bud because you never know if it'll get back to her and she's not going to be happy when it does! It could be that you think it's a complement to compare your date to your mother because you think your mom is super cool and a wonderful person. Your date on the other hand probably doesn't know this about your mom, and so to her you are saying she's old! Girls are pretty touchy on the subject of age so avoid this landmine!
Underestimating: girls are resourceful. VERY resourceful! They have an information network that the CIA would envy. You don't know what they know or how they know it, so if you're hiding something get it out in the open because you can be very sure that if it's out there, they're going to find it! They may not go looking for it, but because of their social networks, information will come into their hands 2nd hand, 3rd hand and beyond, but come it will, and so it's far better than it comes from you! If you're married, if you were ditched by your ex, if you've got children somewhere, if you've been "inside", once you get into a slightly steady relationship, you need to give her the information before someone else does. You may not get a good reaction, but it's going to be better than if she learns it from someone else. Not all girls are alike and so treat each one that you date as a new experience without any of the baggage from other relationships. Don't have expectations of this date because of what your last date did. Don't think that because your last date yelled at you for opening a door for her that this date doesn't appreciate your thoughtfulness. Above all, be sincere because probably the most common mistake that guys make when dating girls is in not playing things straight. Make sure that you're honest about who you are, and where you are in life. Your date may not like what she hears, but at least she knows where she stands.
Jane Saeman runs a site called along with info on dating and relationship on her blog at at http://www.Hot-Firefighters.com/blog2
Tuesday, November 13, 2007
Wednesday, October 17, 2007
Mind of Mystery
Mystery has been quiet since his VH1 show, but he's silent for a reason. He's been working on his new coaching program which is now ready for aspiring PUAs everywhere.
Check out "Mind of Mystery".
Check out "Mind of Mystery".
Tuesday, August 14, 2007
David Deangelo On Internet Dating
When I first started learning how to meet women and get dates, the internet was an AMAZING tool for me.
One of the great things about meeting women online is that you can literally do it ANYTIME... from anywhere...
It's also a great place to practice first conversations, Cocky & Funny humor, and escalating from "conversations" to DATES.
If you're interesting in learning more about how to meet women online, then you should take a couple of minutes and check THIS out. Make sure you watch the video clips, by the way...
http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/mwo
Let me know what you think.
Talk soon,
David D.
One of the great things about meeting women online is that you can literally do it ANYTIME... from anywhere...
It's also a great place to practice first conversations, Cocky & Funny humor, and escalating from "conversations" to DATES.
If you're interesting in learning more about how to meet women online, then you should take a couple of minutes and check THIS out. Make sure you watch the video clips, by the way...
http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/mwo
Let me know what you think.
Talk soon,
David D.
Thursday, August 2, 2007
Mysterys The Pickup Artist on VH1
I've posted about Mystery's new show on VH1 called "The Pickup Artist" over at the new blog. Check it out.
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