'Approaching Women' New DVD Program

I got this email from David DeAngelo today, and he announced a new program, called 'Approaching Women'.

It is a much needed program, and it will skyrocket your success with women. You can't get dates without approaching first. So David DeAngelo is getting into specific techniques to help you get what you need out of dating. Although, please, if you haven't read his original eBook you need to do that now!

He has reduced the price, ONLY $19.97 NOW!

That is dirt cheap for a lifelong supply of women! I paid much more than that over a year ago. Much cheaper than the 'Approaching Women' DVD set.

Believe me if you haven't read it, you need to, it also has great examples of approaching women...

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The e-mail from David:

I've just finished up my brand-new program thatis 100% dedicated to the skill of APPROACHING WOMEN.

I'm going to be "releasing it to the public" soon, but I wanted to tell you in advance, so you can get on the interest list and order before "the masses"... just in case I run out.

This is the hottest topic when it comes tomeeting women... and I think you're REALLY going to dig this program.

As usual, I've got some killer video clips ofthe program on the website... All you have to do is go to this link, and signup for the interest list... you'll instantly be redirected to the website where you can watch the video clips and "order before everyone else":

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I'll talk to you soon!

David D.

Being the "Nice" Guy

Interesting times for me.

I talk alot of big talk. I'd like to think I have this whole "attraction" thing down, but I'm just a student like most of us.

Today, I called the twin. I feel like I'm heading back to wussy town. I called this twin, after advice from a girl at work. She said a simple "Are you doing ok?" (After she cancelled plans because of her ex-boyfriend wanting to apologize to her) She said she was fine. She gave me some reasons why she couldn't meet me during the week. I was back at work, and I said, see she didn't appreciate it. As I said it, my phone rang. It was the twin. She finally said that she could meet up for 30 minutes or so at campus before our classes. So I guess that's ok. I mean a year ago, that would have been great, I would have loved that kind of attention, but now, it seems distant from the response I was seeking (I'm not even sure what that is).

Also, I have been getting closer to Rachel. After discussing the relationship on the weekend, we went for another one of our famous walks. We opened up to each other alittle further, and I was getting definite IOIs throughout the 1hr long stroll. At the end, I asked what she was doing this weekend. She said nothing much, then I said we should hangout on Friday. She said, I might have a date on Friday. So I basically backed off, and walked away.

Why do women act this way? Very emotional creatures. I think I have pickup down, but relationships, is different. And it scares me alot.

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Don't Rush A Woman

So I went out with the twin on a date to the State Fair. Everything went well, I played indifferent, and made her seek approval. That night we madeout while we watched a movie. The next day came, and I called her that night, she came up to a concert I was at, and we talked and then kissed goodbye. Sunday I didn't call. Today I texted messaged her, and asked her round to hang out. She wanted to, but gave the excuse that her ex-boyfriend has been hassling her and making her feel bad. I gave her space and said, only come around if you want to, otherwise I'll talk to you another time.

Meanwhile, this girl Rachel... We went on a date on Saturday, and really hit things off. We stopped into my friends house to pickup somethings of mine (snowboard, etc). My friend texted me, (a married guy) "Don, she is way too cool and good looking for the likes of you. I think you should aim lower..." Of course, we have this kind of relationship. So basically she told me that she would be heading over to France in a couple of months for five months. This was a study-abroad option alot of college students go for when they are doing that sort of study. I decided to do an experiment.

I told her that I can't date her because we would end up dating exclusively and we would have to break up before she went to France. This was done infront of one of her roommates. Basically, she had the look of an AFC that had just been told that there was no chance of being anything but friends. On Sunday, I wanted to explain it, because she started giving me the cold shoulder. I told her, what will end up happening even if we don't want to date exclusively is that will happen naturally if we get along with each other really well. She said she was just shocked to hear it, and that it didn't freak her out.

Today, she called me alittle after 7pm, (she hasnt called me before) and invited me over to her place for some dessert (seriously... pie). So it goes to show, you can say anything, but so long as you have the right intent, and motives behind, it won't come off creepy.

My topic today is, DONT RUSH A WOMAN. Don't try and rush into a relationship, or even talk about it for awhile. This sends messages to them that you are:

1. Needy (Why do you need to set a relationship up with a girl you barely know? Don't you have other girls that you're closer to? You get a lot of dates right?)

2. Creepy (It is just plain creepy when someone wants a relationship off the bat. No matter if it's the woman or the man)

Just take things slow, because women progress at a much more relaxed rate than you would. Keep up the elusiveness, and confident personality, and you'll be fine.

Till tomorrow,
Donovan

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Neil Strauss on The View (video)

I came across a video with Neil Strauss, author of "The Game", being interviewed and sharing his thoughts on techniques on The View. These women love his responses and are amazed by his techniques.

Mystery - The World's Best Pick Up Artist In ELLE Magazine

Mystery. The author and producer of the Mystery Method line of seduction training materials, and one of the first to do live bootcamps, has been mentioned previously in ELLE magazine. I wasn't aware of this until now. I read the very entertaining and informative article.

The seduction community has been receiving extensive exposure within the last year. Neil Strauss wrote a book this year named "The Game: Penerating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists" which is a handbook and biography about himself, Mystery, and the beginnings of the PUA community. I am currently at chapter 5, I wish I could read it all now, and I could in one night if it wasn't for college classes! Aarghh! Read the review on Attraction Chronicles under "Most Popular Posts" on the top right for a more indepth review that will create an uncontrollable attraction to it!

Until next time, let me know what you would like to see more of on The Attraction Chronicles Blog.

Dating Tip: Should YOU pay for dinner?

The question of "Should I pay for dinner?" is as old as dirt. So let me answer it with one of my typical multi-part answers.

And the first part of my answer is going to be another question to YOU...

WHY WOULD YOU PAY FOR A WOMAN'S DINNER?

And for that matter, why would you buy gifts and do favors for a woman that you just met and don't know?


IT'S PROBABLY BECAUSE YOU WANT SOMETHING.

And guess what?

Attractive women are VERY perceptive. They can usually size a guy up in a matter of SECONDS.

She KNOWS what's on your mind. And she's going to take all the clues you give her to decide how much you like her... and how much of a WUSS you are as well.

Now I'm going to throw you a real curve ball...

I have friends who are very good with women that take women to NICE dinners all the time. I'm talking two hundred PLUS dollars for dinner and drinks ALONE.

I also have friends who almost NEVER take women out for so much as a cup of coffee... yet they have more women than they can handle.

Is this possible?

Are the guys who are buying dinner actually SUCCESSFUL at bribing women with food?

Or do both techniques work?

Well, the interesting thing I've found – after studying this topic for YEARS - is that most guys who are REALLY GOOD with women have something in common
in this area.

While some may buy expensive dinners for women, and some may buy nothing; NONE of them use the idea of paying for things as "bait" or "bribes" or "obligation"...

In other words, it's the INTENTION behind the actions that comes through loud and clear.

My friends that take women on dates to beautiful restaurants would be GOING THERE ANYWAY, and they just happen to be taking the woman along with them.

Or if they open a bottle of expensive wine, THEY WOULD HAVE BEEN DRINKING IT THEMSELVES.

I also have to mention here that all of the guys I know in BOTH camps know how ATTRACTION works, and how to make women feel attracted to them REGARDLESS of whether or not they pay for things.

To explain this differently, women INSTANTLY RECOGNIZE it when they're dealing with a man who feels the need to "buy her attention", and they usually either play hard to get, or they just leave.

You can do anything and have it mean anything.

There's a way to say "You're beautiful" and have it mean "You're not at all attractive", and there's a way to pay for things and NOT have it say "I'm a needy Wussy who feels the need to buy you things so you'll like me".

Get it?

One of the problems that a lot of guys have is the real-world issue of money.

It's expensive to take women out all the time.

It's expensive to buy flowers and drinks and gifts.

And if you're single and dating a lot of women, it can be out of the question to always be paying for things.

Well, the good news is that you don't need to pay for ANYTHING to be successful with women.

And the other good news is that if you LIKE to do nice things and go to nice dinners, THERE IS A WAY to do these things with women and not give off the "I don't deserve you, so I'll pay you for your attention" vibes.

Think about the following two ways to invite a woman out to dinner with you:

1. "Can I take you out to dinner on Friday night?"

2. "I'm thinking of going to dinner on Friday at one of my favorite restaurants, and you should join me."

What's the difference?

The difference is that the first way IMPLIES that you are TAKING her to dinner.

The second IMPLIES that you're living your life, doing your own thing, and being your own person... and that if she'd like to come along, she's welcome.

The second also doesn't make you sound like a WUSSY.

So what's my personal opinion of this whole topic?

Well, I don't think it's a good idea to start off with a woman by PAYING for things.

It's much better to allow her to like you and feel ATTRACTION for you without the distraction and expense.

If you understand how ATTRACTION works, you can trigger it using your body language and communication. No money required.

Then, if you want to enjoy dinner or a drink at one of your favorite places, INVITE HER TO JOIN YOU. Don't ask her if you can "take her out".

This will make a VERY powerful impression. Trust me.


THE FLIP SIDE OF THIS COIN

There is another "dark" side to this whole conversation.

It's the idea that men feel OBLIGATED or INDEBTED to women when the woman spends time with them, gives them attention, etc.

If you're out with a beautiful woman who OBVIOUSLY has many men who pursue her, it's easy to get into the mindset of "I have to do extra things, buy her gifts, and go the extra mile to compete with the other guys".

Sometimes emotions come up that make you feel like you want to "show her" how you feel for her early on... after only knowing her a short while.

OR EVEN WORSE, many guys feel like they OWE A WOMAN SOMETHING BECAUSE SHE'S GONE OUT WITH THEM AND/OR HAD SEX WITH THEM. And often, this "something" is either "dinner and gift payments" or a RELATIONSHIP.

You must realize that EVEN THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMEN IN THE WORLD want MORE than just "payment for their time".

Attractive women have dinners, money, and gifts thrown at them CONSTANTLY. You're not going to do ANYTHING to make her more attracted to you by doing
these things.

As you know, I talk a lot about the concept of ATTRACTION.

ATTRACTION is the powerful sexual emotion that you feel when you want to be intimately and romantically involved with someone of the opposite sex.

Men typically feel it when they see a beautiful woman.

WOMEN typically feel it when they're in the presence of a man who knows how to communicate with that part of her that triggers her ATTRACTION "mechanism".

Most guys either don't know this, never figure it out, or don't pay attention to it.

Instead of learning how women work, and doing those things that will trigger her ATTRACTION, they just make the same mistakes and beat their heads up against the same walls over and over.

And they do things like asking women out to dinner, buying flowers and TRYING TO PAY for attention.

It doesn't have to be this way!

If you're one of the guys who has been paying for women's attention all your life, then do yourself a favor right now and STOP IT!

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Your friend,

David Deangelo

Understanding Variation and Scarcity with Dating

Isn't it funny how when weeks come and go so does our success with women?

I rocked up to a local college dance/party at about 11p.m. I don't smoke or drink. I had the flu. I came home and took some Cold & Flu medication. This made me very drowsy, and almost high. I lost all of my already low social inhibitions. I was opening with every hot girl I saw, "How's the party?", "I need your opinion..." were the norm. By the end of the night, I had about 15 phone numbers from beautiful women. So I slept.

The next day, I thought about calling some of them, but I didn't.

Then Monday, I text messaged most of them, with phrases like "G'day mate" or "What up", I didn't get anything back from any of them. I had over 15 phone numbers and none, not one returned a text message or call.

I deleted them all from my cell phone.

The following week, I approached a few more girls in my apartment complex, that Tuesday night I went out with a beautiful (9/10) brunette 19-year-old. Just before I met up with the 9 on Friday, a friend and I went to an apartment complex dance which wasn't all that great. But on the way out I opened a short, skinny blonde identical twin and got her number. I didn't contact until Friday night, and we went back to my place and watched a movie, cuddled, held hands. I thought it better not to kiss her, she seems to be the type of woman I would like a more permanent relationship with. Then I backed off, and didn't see her Saturday.

However....

Saturday I went over to this girl I have a class with. Her roommate was home (8/10) and I invited her roommate over to watch a movie. (Alien vs. Predator) we cuddled and setup a date for Thursday.

Sunday, I went for a walk with the 9 and Wednesday we went to her house and watched a international cartoon movie. We held hands infront of her roommates, and laughed and busted on each other. Didn't setup anything for another time.

Thursday, I came home from classes and work to find two burnt CD's with Fall Out Boy and Taking Back Sunday with a note, that said...

"Donovan... T.B.S and Fall Out Boy as requested. It should be good running music
for you.... Enjoy! (Name)"

I didn't see her Thursday, and its Friday today, so I might call her tonight and do something Saturday.

I also setup a date during this past week for tonight, with the twin. I can't remember too well what she looks like, but I know I wouldn't have gotten her number if she wasn't decent looking. We are going to a carnival and I sent this text message,

"I was thinking of the carnival. Its a little weird for the first date, but I don't care, I want to go."

She said, "Hahaha, sounds cool!"

This brings me on to the topic of VARIATION.

I have noticed, that even when you are improving your game by picking up women, your success always changes in the short time. Over the long time, you are becoming much more of a PUA, but in the short time it seems like your unsuccessful.

Even if you have an upward trend, your daily or weekly successes maybe very different. For example, this week you got the phone numbers of 20 girls. Last week you got 5. Next week you got 2. The week after, 30. So the upward average is 20 + 5 + 2 + 30 / 4 = around 14 per week. So you have to look at the long term, rather than the short term successes and losses.

An illustration from Google's stock price.



See how the price is going up and down every day in the months. But the overall trend is upward.

My example was, I got 20 numbers in one night, and then none of them got in contact with me. But the following week, I got about 5 numbers and all of them called me. Be aware of this phenomenon. It can help you stay in control and not be desperate because it seems like you're not having the success that you need.

The other topic: SCARCITY.

It kind of comes from the variation subject. If you're coming from a place of scarcity, then your actions will reflect it. You will value women higher than when you have an abundance of supply. So just remember, don't come from a place of scarcity. It creeps women out. Pretend and believe that you have many OPTIONS. This will make you less needy, and more productive around women. Your dating life will be happier.

That is it for today, I'm going on the date with the twin tonight. Hopefully add a good girl to my list of dating options.

Your mate in dating and women,
Donovan

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