Many guy's stumble at this point due to a number of factors. Either they are too afraid to make the move and commit themselves due to the fact that they may get rejected or they just don't know what to do. The fact of the matter is that you need to constantly escalate things between you and the girl you are pursuing or you are just going to end up in the "friends zone".
So what do we do? Well first things first here's what not to do! Do not just pounce on her and try to shove your tongue down her throat! That won't work! Do not try and grab a handful of her ass at the first opportunity! Amazingly this wont work either! You need to take things to the next level smoothly! Smooth being the operative word! We're not aiming to be best friends with the girl in question. We want to take things sexual. So don't treat her like your best drinking buddy. Idle chit chat about subjects such as why the economy is failing or why she hasn't got a boyfriend yet are not likely to spike her sexual interest in you or have her feeling sexual emotions. You need to challenge her and get her to constantly prove herself to you. Get her talking about subjects that have her feeling intense emotions. Subjects such as her passions. What does she love to do. Whats most important to her in life. What does she really desire? These are the things that are going to escalate things quickly.
Teasing is a great way to escalate sexual tension. Bust her balls a bit. Get her involved in playful fighting. Tease her until she playfully hits you back for your cheek. This works great! Always keep in mind though that we want to keep things playful and lighthearted. You don't want to offend her in any way. Try to stay away from the subjects she holds most dear to her. Tease her on general subjects that you could tease any number of people on i.e T.V shows she watches, general taste in music. Become the type of guy who is generally "touchy feely". Not creepy! What I mean is that there are many people who are constantly touching you in a playful, friendly way when they are talking to you. They will touch you on the arm when talking to you, place a hand on your back when leading you somewhere, hug you when you meet up. If you are known as this type of person it will not be seen as creepy when you try to escalate things by way of correct "kino".
Use playful kino to play things safe at first. Playfighting, poking her, picking her up etc are all examples of playful kino. Incorporate this into general conversation and it also acts to add to your persona of being a generally fun guy to be around.
To escalate things further we need to add a little "sexual kino". This can be seen as things like touching her hair, holding her hand and putting your arm around her. This will escalate things to a sexual level quickly if done correctly and she will know at this point exactly what your intentions are.
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